Explaining Politics to Kids: Tips for Age-Appropriate Conversations

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Discussing politics with kids can seem daunting and difficult. You may be thinking…“How do I explain complex things like differing political views and transitioning to a new administration to my child simply?” 

It’s a valid question, and it’s possible! Whether it’s about the differences in opinions between family members, a new president taking office, or the political messages on social media, it is possible to teach kids to understand political topics in an age-appropriate way. 

Here are 5 strategies to help guide these conversations with your kid.

1. Start Simple and Be Honest

Kids don’t need to know everything going on in politics or everything about the new administration. Instead, focus on basic ideas like leadership, fairness, and rules. Explain that politics is about how our decisions affect how things work in society, from schools to healthcare to the environment.

With younger children, start a simple conversation about voting, like choosing a leader in a game. This analogy can help them understand how adults choose who will be the leader or president of the country.

As children grow older, they may ask more questions about policies and politicians to kick off conversations with you. It’s important to provide clear, fact-based responses, without overwhelming them with unnecessary details or opinions.

2. Foster Critical Thinking

One of the most valuable skills you can help children develop when discussing politics is critical thinking. Instead of telling your child who is "right" or "wrong," encourage them to ask questions and think more about the information they receive. 

Teach them to ask questions like, “Who is saying this?” and “What facts support this?” When talking about the new administration’s policies or speeches, explain how people often have different opinions. Yet, it's important to consider the facts before forming an opinion.

3. Emphasize the Importance of Values

While politics can often be divisive, much of it is about values. Teach children that many decisions in politics are made based on what people believe is important.

For example, explain that some people believe that everyone should have access to healthcare because they value kindness and equality. Others may feel differently, and we have to respect their values and understand that everyone doesn’t see the world in the same way.

When kids can understand that politics isn’t just about having power and winning, but about the values that drive big decisions, they may want to get more involved in politics and debates to see where they stand.

4. Teach Respecting Others’ Views

People’s political views are based on their values, backgrounds, and experiences in life. As a parent or caregiver, set an example by respecting the opinions of others, even if you don’t agree with them. 

For instance, when discussing the new president, explain that some people voted for him and support his agenda. While, others didn’t vote for him and don’t support it, even though they accept it. When we can take a step back and understand that we all care about different issues and have different experiences, we can learn to accept and respect people’s choices.

Push kids to engage in respectful conversations with others, even when they disagree too. This helps them practice effective listening and communication, no matter the issue at hand.

5. Encourage Fact-Checking

In the age of constant media exposure, it’s crucial to help children learn how to distinguish between true information and misinformation. Share that not everything they read or hear in the media or from people they trust is true. 

Teach them how to fact-check by comparing multiple sources and looking for evidence. Show them how to recognize credible news sources and how to avoid "echo chambers" that only reinforce one point of view. 

Challenge your child to ask questions like, “Who created this information?” or “What’s the evidence behind this statement?” These small habits will help them develop a critical lens to navigate all information and instill a little skepticism that can protect them from misinformation. 

By fostering open conversations that honor honesty, critical thinking, and respect, you can help your kid navigate the complex world of politics and change. For more on how to talk about politics, decisions, and values, explore a few more of our recent blogs. 

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