3 Ways to Discuss Bullying With Your Child
͏Bullying is a serious problem that impacts many kids. As a parent, it’s important to talk to your child about what bullying is and how to handle it.
There are different kinds of bullying and they all involve someone being mean on purpose to make another person feel bad, sad, or scared. To kick off a conversation, explain this in a way your child can understand:
“Sometimes, kids bully other kids because they feel bad about themselves. They might think that being mean to others will make them feel better. Other times, bullies may be doing what they’ve seen someone else do. But, bullying is never okay, no matter the reason! Everyone deserves to be treated with kindness.”
In honor of National Bullying Prevention Month, here are three tips on how you can discuss bullying with your kids:
1. Use Relatable Examples
Bring up situations that are relevant to your child’s life, such as something they might see in the classroom or online. For example, you could ask, "How would you feel if someone in your class called you names every day and told other kids not to talk to you?"
2. Teach Them How to Act
Talk to them about ways to respond if they see or experience bullying. Tell them to stand up for others by going to a trusted adult, like a teacher, parent, or counselor, and to be kind to the kids who are being bullied.
3. Encourage Empathy
Explain that being kind makes people feel good. Model and welcome empathy to help your child understand the value of treating others with respect and standing up against bullying!
If your child tells you they’re being bullied, listen carefully and take them seriously. Thank them for telling you and share that it’s not their fault. Conversations like these can help them recognize bullying, understand why it’s wrong, and how to respond.
